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You can easily judge the character of others

by how well they treat those

who do nothing to them or for them.

You and I, we judge others. And they judge us. We all do it. Sometimes we judge with positive or non-harming intentions.

Unfortunately, our judgment often comes from a negative place, with darker intent.

Why do we Judge ?

Though we judge for many reasons, we often do it when:

•We cannot identify with a person’s belief system, values, or behavior

•We don’t know a person well (yet)

I believe we judge for the first reason because our minds want to simplify the processing of information by putting environmental clues into categories. This just makes things so much easier, doesn’t it?

For me personally, when I judge for the second and third reasons, I have especially negative emotions and thoughts toward others.

I try hard not to judge, and have been doing so less and less, but I still have a ways to go.

Stop judging ✌🏻

•Monitor your thoughts

•Look for the positive

•Stop judging yourself

•Remember how it feels

•Focus on your own life

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Doubt yourself and you doubt everything you see. Judge yourself and you see judges everywhere. But if you listen to the sound of your own voice, you can rise above doubt and judgment. And you can see forever.

“Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.”

I find myself constantly worrying about what others think of me . Always worried that people might be judging me and what i am doing. Overthinking as always .

We post only the best picture out of the hundreds of selfies we took and add a flattering filter to get the most likes to prove to ourselves that we are pretty and likable.

We live in other people’s heads.

And all it does is make us judge ourselves more harshly. It makes us uncomfortable in our own bodies. It makes us feel apologetic for being ourselves. It makes us live according to our perception of other people’s standards.

The truth is, other people’s opinions of us are none of our business. Their opinions have nothing to do with us and everything to do with them, their past, their judgments, their expectations, their likes, and their dislikes.

Some will hate me because I remind them of their annoying sister . Others will feel compassionate toward me because I remind them of their daughter. Some will completely understand what I have to say, and others will misinterpret my words.

No matter what I do some people will never like me. No matter what I do some people will always like me. Either way, it has nothing to do with me. And it’s none of my business.

Ok, “that’s all well and good” you may be thinking. “But how do I stop caring what other people think of me?”

• know you values

• know to stay in your own business

• Know that you are doing your best

• know that everyone makes mistakes

• know that life is too short

Keep your dreams alive , keep yourselfmotivated

The road to success is rough , the journey tough and the time limited. Whatever you are trying to become or accomplished your goals. The truth is – achieving any goal is difficult. You will experience ups and downs , highs and lows. At this time of moment of life , it is always useful to be surrounded by people who can lead you a helping hand , add some positive vibes and some value to your life.

We are the product of our surroundings and the people we interact with on daily basis.

We think and act in similar a way to the people with whom we spend the time most.

And the wish is your’s to surround yourself with the people ?

• Ambitious and passionate

Surround yourself with people who have goals , want to accomplish something in life reach somewhere and be something. These people who big picture in their mind. They work accordingly , are focused on their goal and are always planning in terms of moving ahead on their chosen path.

• inspiring one

Surround yourself with people you aspire to be, what you too want to become and who are out to reach similar goals as you. You can relate to such people, have meaningful conversations with them, discuss your problems, ask for advice and seek their help when you feel stuck.

• Problem solver

No matter who you are or what you do, you will always encounter problems in one form or the other. Instead of cribbing about things not working out, problem solvers focus on finding out ways to fix the problems. Surround yourself with these people and they will help you figure out the way forward.

• Bring the best out of you

Surround yourself with people who understand you, can identify with your dreams and aspirations and will help you further your goals. anyone you can resonate with and feel comfortable with talking your heart out, discussing your positives and negatives,strengths and weaknesses. They will help you get the real self and make feel confident.

You cannot change the people around you but you definitely have the power to choose people whom you wish to be close to you and influence you in a meaningful way. Surround yourself with the ambitious and the most productive people if you want to grow. This choice will go a long way in helping you keep yourself in a positive frame of mind, work hard to achieve your goals, reach where you aspire to be and live a happy and successful life.

One question that I always ask to myself – what is life? What it is about? What we are living for?

What is life ? 🤔

• Is it about listening to your heart or doing things according to your mind.

• Is it about forgetting and moving on or remembering the bad things as lessons.

What life is about?

Life is all about yourself. The way you deal with the problems, the way you search for your dream job, the way you search for something to make your family happy. Challenges are going to be there in life. And if you complete that challenges, you are going to face a lot of problems, issues and everything. The Thing is Need To Trust Yourself. You need to have faith in your thinking and confidence.

The moment you look upon yourself will benefit you in future. Don’t care about others, just care about yourself and your parents. Work hard, Travel …….. that what you are living for.

“ Life is a dream for the wise, a game for the fool, a comedy for the rich, a tragedy for the poor.”

Is life about collecting memories?

Yeah life about collecting memories and experiences as much as you can. If things you need to know but not going to describe your life.

• If you failed in your career try again

• Spread smile because lot of people are in seek of love.

• live life for the moment because everything is uncertain.

• if you are happy doing what you are doing then nobody can tell you are not successful.

Life is beautiful 🌸

What everyone want in life ?

Hmmm🤔

A successful Person 🤷🏻‍♀️

Success what does it mean ?

Success is the achievement of something that you have been trying to do .

What is success to you ? How to be successful in life ?

For some, when they think of success, they imagine, wealth; others want power; some just want to make a positive impact on the world.

All of these are perfectly valid. Success is a concept that means different things to different people. Well no matter what success is to you, it is something which will not come easily to you.

There are countless guides and books. Books suggestion which I liked 😊

1. How To Win Friends and Influence people by Dale Carnegie
2. Success Through A positive Mental Attitude by Napoleon Hill

1. Think big : “ the greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.”

2. Find what you Love to do and do it : “ you know you are on the road to success if you would do your job and not be paid for it.”

3. Do not afraid of Failure : “ Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.”

4. Don’t be afraid of introducing new ideas : “A person with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds.”

5. Believe in your capacity to succeed : “if you can dream it, you can do it.”

6. Always maintain a positive mental attitude: “Nothing can stop the women with the right mental attitude from achieving her goal; nothing on earth can help the women with the wrong mental attitude.”

7. Be willing to hard work : “Unless you are willing to drench yourself in your work beyond the capacity of the average man, you are just not cut out for positions at the top.”

8. Be brave enough to follow your intuition : “Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

“If you want to live a happy life, tie to a goal, not to people or things.”

– Albert Einstein

Thanks for joining me!

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton